A common byproduct of growing up in a toxic environment, is that you approach life with all these assumptions about people and relationships that are just flat out wrong. As children we are constantly taking in data from our lives and using it to build schemas. These schemas are basically blueprints – step by step instructionsContinue reading “Letting Go of Toxic Love Schemas”
One of my goals for the year is to work on opening my throat chakra. For those of you who don’t speak metaphysics, this is really just a whoo-whoo way of saying – I’m working on the skill of speaking my truth more freely. I like to think my verbal communication skills are on point.Continue reading “Speak your Truth! (& clear your throat chakra)”
I had a full-blown PTSD Freeze moment yesterday. I’ll be honest, it caught me off guard. For the past month, I have not experienced any of the physical effects of my C-PTSD. A change I contribute that to reaching the apex of my trauma work mid-December. Physically I’ve felt the difference. I am no longer fighting night terrors orContinue reading “PTSD 101: Fight, Flight & Freeze – Surviving a Freeze”
My first semester at Texas A&M I regularly crossed paths with this beautiful red-headed woman with dreadlocks. From the moment I saw her, my spirit was excited by her. This lovely hippie soul STOOD OUT in the conservative, deep-south of the early 2000’s. In my mind, she is embodiment of health and self-confidence. For many years she has actedContinue reading “Healing thru Hair?!? How my Dreads are Part of my Trauma Journey”
As scary as the journey can be. The path out of that hell is to choose to face the darkness. For those who are engaging in your own trauma work as part of their 2020 intentions, I’d like to share a few guideposts from my own journey.
It is January 1, 2020. Lets just say 2019 is a year I am grateful to be leaving in the past. Very few aspects of my life bear any resemblance to the life I naïvely believed I had built just twelve months ago. It was an ugly and painful year that came with a side of destruction. AsContinue reading “Adios 2019 – I’m Happy to See You Go”
After two months of mulling over this project, a conversation with my dear friend Phillip helped me realize today was the day to jump in. Hi there! My name is Jamie Schmidt. I’m two weeks away from turning thirty, and my life is a complete wreck. I’m trained as a Licensed Professional Counselor though myContinue reading “How did I end up here?”